Compassionate, authentic and intentional.

Change and healing occurs when we are in safe and secure connections, with our self and others. Providing therapy to clients in Virginia & North Carolina. Offering clinical consultation and supervision globally.

Welcome to Callahan Therapy & Consultation

Serving clients in Virginia & North Carolina. Supervising therapists globally.

Hi, I’m Melissa Callahan, LMFT. As an attachment-based, relational therapist I truly believe in the lasting impact relationships have on our lives. In my work with clients', I show up with curiosity, empathy, warmth and a touch of humor. My hope is to guide my clients respectfully and collaboratively throughout the therapeutic process. I have provided treatment for couples, individuals and families for 10+ years. Additionally, I am an LGBTQ+ ally, non-monogamy-affirming, anti-racist and culturally humble therapist licensed to provide therapy in-person at my Northern Virginia office. I also offer tele-health session to any person in Virginia and North Carolina. As you consider beginning the courageous step of initiating therapy, I encourage you to reach out to see if I am a good fit for your healing journey.

Beginning therapy is an investment, as well as a vulnerable risk. To ensure you receive the best treatment, I lean on frameworks proven through research to be effective in growth and healing. I am a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT), dedicated to creating deeper emotional bonds and lasting change in relationships. EFT is an empirically-validated model also proven to be effective in working with couples and individuals. I also utilize self-compassion techniques and Internal Family Systems as my foundational framework.

Additionally, I am a Virginia Board Approved Supervisor eligible to supervisee pre-licensed therapists towards their LMFT or LPC status. As an ICEEFT Certified Supervisor, I am qualified to support you on your journey towards EFT Certification. I am an AAMFT Approved Supervisor providing relational and systemic supervision across the country. Furthermore, I am able to mentor you on the path towards your AAMFT Approved Supervisor status.


As an advanced therapist trained in empirically validated models and ICEEFT Certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I will support you in your individual and/or relational goals. Relational healing is my speciality.

Beyond my training, I believe true healing comes from an empathic connection between client and therapist. In our work together I offer compassion, authenticity and intentional therapy in a safe and nurturing space.

I specialize in working with couples, families and individuals; repairing and restoring fractures within the self or within relationships. I am licensed to provide therapy in-person at my Northern Virginia office. I also offer tele-health session to any person in Virginia and North Carolina.


Effective therapy for our clients is provided when the therapist is nurtured. Our collaboration will deepen the relationship you have with yourself and with your clients. The intimate connection to your own humanity will become your best tool in fostering client’s growth.

I am an AAMFT Approved and Virginia Board Approved Supervisor who uses Person of the Therapist Training Model as my framework. Supervision and consultation with me allows the authentic self to shine through with clients, as we fine-tune the deliberate execution of preferred models. Supervision allows space for growth and reflection on the client’s experience and treatment, while supporting the therapist wholeheartedly.

Additionally, I am an ICEEFT Certified Supervisor. I can support you in refining your EFT skills, or mentor you towards your own ICEEFT EFT Certification.


Connecting with others is my passion. True connection is accomplished by showing up authentically and vulnerably in your interactions with others.

My consultation is tailored to be accessible, engaging and empowering for your organization. I lead groups of Supervisors supporting one another in their supervision work. Additionally, I lead groups of therapists in practicing EFT.

I apply proven therapeutic and supervision/mentorship models for a wide variety of audiences including: consumers, paraprofessionals and institutions. Additionally, I have developed specific speaking topics for workshops. If you’re interested, I welcome collaboration to meet the specific needs of your assembly.

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